Dear Gerry:
Is there a dating website you can use? Not a hook-up type website but serious dating website? If there is you can type your profile where you state what you stated here, that you are interested “in a real relationship with a girl that Iβm similar to.” You can get more specific and clear as to what would be similar to you. What traits and values you are looking for in a girl. With a profile, a presentation of yourself, you can make yourself very clear. The clearer, the better.
Are there Singles meetings in Uni, people coming together for the purpose of making friends? Something light and easy, no music or partying…?
Think of your daily schedule- when and where during the day do you come across girls and in which time and place would it be possible for you to talk to a girl?
anita