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  • September 30, 2019 at 10:29 am #315197
    Anonymous
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    Dear Aiko:

    To understand better I ask regarding what you wrote here: “I will probably need them at some point”-

    – how will you be needing them at some point; what kind of help do you expect from them in the future?

    anita

    September 30, 2019 at 12:26 pm #315219
    Aiko
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    Yea, I guess I’d just like to know if my stuff collapses I would have somewhere to go.

    September 30, 2019 at 12:28 pm #315223
    Aiko
    Participant

    Though I’ve been holding it down for 6 years on my own through and after college. I’m still young & would like to have that sense security . I have more practical ppl to rely on, but I’d never want to ask them for help because we aren’t blood.

    September 30, 2019 at 12:52 pm #315231
    Anonymous
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    Dear Aiko:

    When “blood” is “dysfunctional disconnected & emotionally violent environment” better not look for it for “that sense of security”.  Better look for the “more practical ppl to rely on”.

    Blood most often is not what it.. is supposed to be, a place of safety. So don’t visit them, is my advice.

    anita

    September 30, 2019 at 1:08 pm #315237
    Aiko
    Participant

    That’s a relief. I’m sure I’ll be hard headed and be guilted into visiting. But not often .

    Thanks!

    September 30, 2019 at 1:52 pm #315245
    Anonymous
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    You are welcome, Aiko. I hope you don’t get guilted into visiting, not when guilt is not justified.

    anita

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