I have been with my partner for two years. At the beginning sex was infrequent. Then it stopped all together. It was him not me. He loves me and I have everything that I could want emotional and closeness. But he has no sexual desire at all. I try and understand but I think how can he marry me if he doesn’t want that intimacy. If I touch him he will go and do something else. We went on holiday and starting kissing but he stopped and said we will take it slowly. It didn’t happen again. My confidence as a woman is at rock bottom. I don’t think I can survive on cuddles and kisses. I long to be with him and express my love. The man prior used me for sex and didn’t love me at all. Then I meet the most wonderful man but there’s no intimacy. I’m starting to think that I am ugly, that he doesn’t love me or he wants something else. It’s two years soon and I’m starting to think it won’t change. His history is huge gaps in relationships some were long distance. Also he has never lived with anyone but me. Maybe because I moved in that’s why it stopped. He tells me that it’s nothing to do with us living together. He doesn’t touch me anywhere intimate no where. I don’t want to leave but I don’t know how to turn things around. He’s been to the doctor’s but nothings changed. My biggest fear is that he will look elsewhere. If I try and talk about it he becomes angry. I love him so much that I would scarifice intimacy but how would he remains satisfied with me.