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  • April 3, 2017 at 7:35 am #143457
    Anonymous
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    Dear Maria:

    His statement to you when he chose to end contact with you: “no matter what happens, if I get mad, if I act like I hate you- no matter what I will always love you” – is a dishonest, manipulative sentence. He gets to act mad at you and to make you believe that he is not mad at you. If he acts mad, angry but is not feeling it, then he is dishonest.

    Lots of crying going on, on his part and on yours. His crying though… is suspect to me because he broke up with you twice without giving you reason, as well as his manipulative statement.

    anita

    April 3, 2017 at 4:32 pm #143527
    Maria
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    I do now see now that you point it out, what should I do? I want him but I also want to move on.

    April 3, 2017 at 7:31 pm #143541
    Anonymous
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    Dear Maria:

    What you need is to be loved, don’t you? That part felt so good before, and this is what you want. He is no longer that love for you. He ignores you and is involved with another girl. This is your reality, accept it.

    As badly as you feel, you will survive this feeling. If you stop hoping for him, your pain will not last as long as if you continue to hope.

    Say goodbye to him, in your heart, and walk away. Love for you is elsewhere.

    anita

    April 4, 2017 at 12:49 pm #143647
    pinchofattitude
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    Hey Maria,

    Listen, you are only 18 years old and you have a big future ahead of you. First love is hard to get over but you need to move on and do not allow him to manipulate you any longer with his tears and lies. You need to be loved, respected and care for. So go out with your girlfriends and enjoy what life has to offer, talk things with them and seek their best opinions and move on.

    At 25, I was in the similar relationship where my boyfriend was cheated on me twice and yet I still stayed with him, not cause I loved him but he made me felt guilty by crying where he said he will change and yet never did. The moral of the story is, always love yourself and think with your head, not your heart or else you will be wasting years of your life.

    The moral of the story is, always love yourself and think with your head, not your heart or else you will be wasting years of your life.

    Be strong and I know you will get through this.

    Love,

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