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  • April 17, 2017 at 4:16 pm #145577
    Craig
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    Amanda,

    I think you’ve got a lot of work to do, in understanding yourself and why you’ve made the choices you have, and in understanding this guy that you want to be with, but who seems understandably unsure whether he wants or is able to be with you.

    One place you could start is with your thought, “I just want him to know that this was not an end all, and I know it takes time, and i wish there was a way to convey to him it is worth it.”

    That is YOUR point of view. HIS point of view seems pretty different in that he seems to believe it might NOT be worth it. If you care about this guy, you might want to focus on understanding how HE sees things – and do this without having an agenda to change him.

    Craig

     

     

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    April 18, 2017 at 10:11 am #145685
    Anonymous
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    Dear Amanda:

    I don’t know if you can get his love back. But you can learn from the experience.

    You wrote that you “withdrew from my boyfriend and became mean and cold to him. I looked for reasons why we wouldn’t work so I could make the choice between them easier on myself.”- and you did it for two months. You were mean to him so to make it easier on yourself. Well, that was selfish, and indeed, mean. The kind choice would have been to tell your new boyfriend that you have chosen to give your old relationship a second try. That would have been honest, direct and kind.

    If you learn this lesson, you will have something very valuable to offer a boyfriend in the future, be it the one you referred to on this thread, or someone new.

    anita

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