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  • February 18, 2019 at 10:47 am #280645
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    Dear Felix:

    “I am here for some logic and smart words put together to make my brain go ‘OOOOOH I get it!!!”-

    -this is my attempt at satisfying your request, just one, this is all I have (following extensive communication with you in the past):

    all you need is one woman, one woman that you find to be attractive enough (“I can’t force myself to date someone I am not attracted to”, you wrote August last year), a woman who is not part of the “hypergamy- Women Marry Up” category you mentioned, women looking for a man with a “house or a large savings account.. a vacation around the world”, etc.

    There has to be one moment in the millions who live in LA, just one. I hope you locate her and I hope it works out for you and for her, to have the family you wanted for so long.

    anita

     

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    February 18, 2019 at 11:42 am #280655
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    Dear Felix:

    An after thought: except that the problem is not women being after money, hypergamy as you termed it. Your anger is not about that, so it will not be resolved if you did find a woman who is okay with a man not owning a home and lots of money. Your anger is not about that.

    It is similar to people who are very angry about this or that political issue- their anger is directed at a particular issue, or topic, but their anger predates that topic and is fueled by an early life experience that is not at all about a political or social or economic event or dynamic.

    Attend to your original hurt and anger and fear, that predates your romantic relationships, is my suggestion.

    anita

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