He does not care if i go or not. He also does not like going either. To the people who have disrespected me and my family – going where they are or to their house is now over as they have hurt too much so the solution is there. I just stupidly went to a gathering knowing they were there and took the risk, only to feel hurt again. Any cultural greeting is not mandatory and is not asked for from others in my position within the family, i just got picked on to speak like that which was unfair and uncalled for.