Hi Matt

How to let go? If only there was a pill we could take.

I personally don’t believe that time heals, time subjectively anyway, is an illusion as the past, present and future – is present – together in every moment.  In this moment you mourn the future that cannot be – “the most painful state of being is remembering a future, particularly the one you’ll never have.” – Kierkegaard

Time does not heal though ‘in time’ the attachment to memory fades, we learn things about ourselves and we move forward, maybe even grow a little.

“I know in my heart that you were my future”  sounds romantic… however does anyone want to be another’s future? That’s a lot of responsibly to place on someone.

Sorry I’m not helping… it just that these sentiments that we get lost in after a breakup may be what we need to let go of so that we may move forward.

“In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer”. Albert Camus

How to Move On: What It Really Means to Let Go