Hi Henry – is it possible that you haven’t formed your own beliefs yet? It may help you to first think about who you are, at the bottom of it all. Once you’re firm in your own beliefs, you won’t worry that much about who you support, which religion you belong to. You won’t even really care about pleasing anyone – you don’t have to speak against them either. You’ll just be more secure in who you are.
I’d suggest you compose your own core philosophy of life. Here’s one way to do it: http://www.nestintheforest.com/core-philosophy/