Hi Dude

No people don’t usually experience similar circumstances. There is a reason why this experience makes everyone but you uncomfortable.

There were cameras involved this immediately suggests two things a) a sexual connotation b) bullying. Attempting to coerce him by offering money to bounce directly reinforces these connotations.

What happened was wildly inappropriate. I don’t think that he will ever forget it.

That being said, this is the first time you have expressed remorse about what happened. Finally understanding the harm caused however painful is a step in the right direction.