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Help Re-spark the flame, bc I do love him….

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  • June 5, 2017 at 9:51 am #151996
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lin:

    I think I know how NOT to “get that vibe going again”-

    Answer: “to want to, so very badly”- to desperately want to get a feeling that is not there is the way to not get it.

    If I was you, I would let go, best I can, of the wanting and expecting that particular feeling, that vibe or spark. If you do like and love your boyfriend; if you appreciate him as much as you do, and if you are not physically appalled by him, can you not keep going without that vibe?

    Maybe all women lost that vibe for the man they love at one point or another. Maybe all men lose it for their women, at one point or another. I can’t imagine A Vibe unchanged eternally, lifetime.

    I hope your knee heals well. Post again with your thoughts and feelings.

    anita

    June 6, 2017 at 1:10 pm #152182
    Eliana
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    Dear Lin,

    No matter how awesome a man is, how successful, good looking, compatible, etc, unfortunately, people can drift apart. Relationships are difficult and complicated. You said you were with him a long time, I am wondering, was there ever any discussion of a future with each other..such as marriage, engagement, children, etc? Maybe if there is no discussion, maybe hope was lost of a future together and things just fizzled out.

    There might still be hope. Talk to him. Go on a vacation where you have never been before away from routine and try to get the spark back. Have date nights. Light candles. Compliment him. Have a bubble bath with him. Take him on a long romantic drive at night. Look at the stars. Go to a drive-in..or a bed and breakfast. Just something you two have never done before to rekindle things. Let us know how things go.

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