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January 5, 2016 at 3:59 pm #91430
jimParticipantI could never understand when they say Everything happens for a reason! I have gotten my heart handed back to me in a million pieces again!!! I met this girl online 3 hours away. we would meet halfway 68 miles. things just went so great right from the first date and JUST got better and better each time we would meet up! no sex involved! till, 3 months. I drove to her house 3 hours away. finally had sex. we got into a big fight cause I would get up in the night and sleep in the other room because she snorted so lot I could not sleep! so I told her I was heading back home cause we got into it! things comen down. when I was leaving I asked her if she was going to call me or text me? she said of course! But never did! It’s been five weeks now. the thing that REALLY bothered me was, she talked about her ex husband alot! saying she wished she worked it out with him cause she will never find a soul mate like that again! Anyways, I fell in love with her. and now I am dealing with a broken heart! Depressed, get sleep, eat, hard time at work! just DON’T KNOW THE REASON WHY IT HAPPEN! The way it did!
January 5, 2016 at 5:57 pm #91455
AnonymousGuestDear jim:
I am one who does not believe Everything happens for a reason. I don’t believe anything at all is predetermined, destined.
The fact that she told you that her husband is her soulmate and she will never have another, that speaks louder than… loud snoring, I say. It tells you she is not ready and or not willing to have a relationship with you or with anyone at all.
The reason it happened, well… perhaps she indeed is not over her ex husband and wants him back.
I am sorry for your pain, please post again, share, vent, ask, anything…
anita
January 6, 2016 at 3:34 am #91506jimParticipantThank You anita, yes that’s what I need to do repost just so I can vent! I don’t drink or do drugs. so I feel EVERY OZ OF PAIN THAT SHE HAS DELIVERED! and your right about she NOT ready for any relationship. cause she talks about her Ex Husband missing him! Lol! this what exactly I am talking about! they say Everything happens for a reason! I fall in love with this girl and she’s not even over losing her husband!just wish I never got involved! TOO late now! Now I have to deal with the my broken heart that she hande back to me in a million pieces!
January 6, 2016 at 7:01 am #91512AnonymousGuestDear jim:
Yes, keep venting, posting, please do. And keep in mind, as you experience what you experience in life, to learn a little lesson from each, if there is a lesson to be learned. Next woman in your life, if she talks about an ex and sounds too attached, if you ask her about it … get the feel if she is at all available.
But for now, as your heart is in a million pieces, well… give it time and keep posting!
anita
January 6, 2016 at 7:44 am #91517jimParticipantThank You anita!
January 6, 2016 at 8:23 am #91520AnonymousGuestYou are welcome, jim, anytime, and I like your replies to other people’s posts here.
anita
January 6, 2016 at 5:01 pm #91602jimParticipantjust wanted to say thank you all for advice! And thank god there is this site for us to go and and advice on healing and getting through these tough times! There is a lot of people on there that is hurting! and right now I am a mess myself but, when I can try to respond to someone that is hurting and in pain it makes me feel good! I have told friends and family, I rather be beating up with with baseball bats then go through that pain of a break up!
January 6, 2016 at 7:50 pm #91622AnonymousGuestYou are welcome, jim.
January 7, 2016 at 1:52 am #91657jimParticipantHi Jessica, I know in reality that we won’t be getting back together! I am not trying to get back together! I am trying to deal with the PAIN and get though it! there was a lady on here that pointed out to me! That apparently she is not over losing her husband of 17 years that was cheating on her. Talk about a slap in the face! she made the comment to ME! That she would never f find a soul mate like that again! AND, that she should have worked it out with him! apparently, time is the only healer! unfortunately, feels like time is standing still!
January 7, 2016 at 8:24 am #91671AnonymousGuestDear jim:
I understand that you wrote the above note with your short time ex girlfriend in mind? Her name is Jessica?
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