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    RamoneJoseph
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    Thomas,

    I’m not sure why you had to give us the explicit details of your heavy petting sessions just to turn around and ask us how to help someone with self love issues?

    Has she freely offered this information, or is it an assumption that you’re making based on your own experience?  You haven’t given us a lot of information to base any suggestions off of.

    Most important, self love is exactly that…  SELF.  It’s not something to be pursued or suggested by another individual.  It’s an experience and journey each of us makes in our own time, in our own way and for reasons we only know.  If you are truly close, this doesn’t mean that she will completely exclude you from her experience, but it is not something that you can guide or influence without tainting the way with your own being…

    You are wanting her to love herself, so that she can love…  Do you understand how selfish that sounds?

    I absolutely understand your feelings!  Love is a wonderful experience and you don’t want to risk losing what you’ve found…

    wishing you health and happiness,

    Ramone

    #139509
    Thomas horner
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    Ramone, she been telling me she needs to love herself. It was never assumption. I put the basis of what’s happened between us. To see if anyone could elaborate more on the chemistry of us. If she is actually taking interest in me or not. I never ran into something like this.

    I know with self help is a journey that has to be explored by oneself. I just want to be apart of her journey to where she wants to be in life and with herself. We have made many plans for each other to do and accomplish together. More than anything I want her to be happy with her choices and everything she wants to accomplish in life. We have many different views but together we make one hell of a team. We both agree on that.

    I never noticed her lack of love for herself since she carries herself very well. Knowing she has bipolar disorder. It’s very hard for her to want to do things for her when she would much rather sleep for a week. I wish I could help her I know I truly can’t have all the answers. I can be there and be the presence that doesn’t leave her like others. I care about her and love her for her and her flaws. The connection we share is very strong it’s been so natural between us. It’s been nothing but good vibes and fun times when we’re together. I want to know she’s going to get to where she wants to be in time. I believe in her.

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