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  • January 17, 2017 at 12:19 pm #125577
    Anonymous
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    Dear artwithoutlimit:

    As to the two options you suggested:

    “it seems like I’m either completely unlovable” – no, that’s not it.

    “or that there’s some sort of curse over me?”- no, that’s not it either.

    What is that mental illness you mentioned?

    anita

    January 17, 2017 at 1:06 pm #125582
    Stine H.
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    I have borderline personality disorder – which is very different from person to person. Mine derives in the fact that I at times can’t control my emotions and becomes very easily suicidal. On top of that I tend to suffer from occassional anxiety and black outs. unfortunately. Thank you very much for the answer.

    January 17, 2017 at 1:27 pm #125583
    Anonymous
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    Dear artwithoutlimit:

    I am very familiar with BPD. It is a collection of symptoms gathered around the core issue; fear, ongoing, excessive. Well, it is not an issue of luck or a curse but fear. Fear and Love don’t mix very well. Fear, excessive, ongoing makes hurt, anger, sadness, distress of any kind, feel worse than otherwise; we get scared of feeling hurt, of feeling good- in fear we lose the good feeling… And so, life is difficult. Healing (not necessarily completely but to a large degree) from anxiety and undoing the combination of symptoms making up the BPD diagnosis is possible. Did you attend psychotherapy, unearthed your childhood injuries?

    anita

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