Dear Jenny Lynn:
Better continue to focus on you and your life, paying off the debts (big deal!) and losing weight, being in shape and as healthy as you can be, working, making an independent life for yourself- so much waste is in relationships that don’t work out and there are so many of them, people invested in wishful thinking and delusions (that the guy they were with and were unhappy with, will make their life wonderful if only).
Better look in the mirror and say, I am on my own. Maybe some day I will find a partner who will work with me, be part of a win-win relationship that will add to my life (not subtract from).
Until then: how do I make today a better day than yesterday, and tomorrow better than today.
anita
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