Hello In 2006 I heard my husband sexually flirting with his direct report at work. I later found out he took her to NY in the name of work training on company expense and it had been going on for a few years. She is married too and pretend to be happy in her marriage. In 2007 I found out he has a long relationship with another workmate who was older than him and married again. He had flirting notes saved to few other females in the office.We went to HELL and back after finding this out. He cried his eyes out and told me he loved me and didn’t want to break the marriage. Later his job changed and now he travels a lots (internationally) and I decided to check his loyalty and this man never fails me….:-( I heard him booking his girls before the trips some Junior staff from the different offices and some paid escorts and one he picked up after flirting with in a Asian beauty parlor (does take much imagination). He again went thru months of no talking I was Really ready to expose him and walk away from this useless relationship but he balled his eyes and I stopped in the name of my kids. They have nothing wrong to deserve a broken house. He is a GREAT dad. Now he is still traveling and i don’t trust him one pinch and lost whole lots of respect for him as person and MAN. He is making a effort or has he changed how to tell or just use him just like he is using him and find my own fun elsewhere….Any suggestions….please help!!! TORN TO SHREDS…..

• This topic was modified 10 years, 7 months ago by Minh.
• This topic was modified 10 years, 7 months ago by Minh.