He left me at my lowest point...why?

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June 11, 2017 at 3:15 pm #152720

Eliana
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Hi Lara,

I’m so glad you are away from this man, he sounds like he has a lot going on, like he gets off on bringing pain to people. I studied alot about Sociopath getting my psych degree, and he is displaying many of those qualites along with narcissist like you described. I am ccertainly no expert, but I’m so glad you made this decision.

June 11, 2017 at 9:00 pm #152746

Anonymous
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Dear Lara sharp:

Thank you for explaining what you meant by narcissist: lying to you about his morals, beliefs and personality, pretending to be different from who he was, being passive aggressive (the silent treatment, disappearing…), not helping you at all with household work, paying nothing toward bills, outings, etc., even though he made good money, buying alcohol with your money, cheating on you while accusing you of cheating, starting arguments, and so on. Too bad you and your children suffered his presence in your lives for so long. I do hope you heal and recover.

Post anytime. Best to you and your children-

anita

June 26, 2017 at 8:24 am #155056

SK
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I definitely do not agree with once a cheater always a cheater, but in his case, he has done it twice and goes back and forth between ‘loving you’ and then moving on to another relationship. My advice to you is to let him be and go, your relationship with him is giving you more grief than love and that is not healthy for you at all. I am so sorry this happened to you and you deserve more than what he did to you.
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