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  • August 23, 2015 at 9:04 pm #82213
    Lucie
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    Hello everybody,

    I actually want to ask you what he means when he says I don’t know? The day before I message my best friend several times. Normally he replies me but that particular day he was odd. I messaged him on Facebook he was seeing all the messages but replied none of them. I got worried if something was wrong. At last I sent him a message telling him that I won’t move until he doesn’t reply me. Then he replied ‘ Lucie… there is no problem. I’m sorry. I asked him why he’s apologising. Replied ‘ just like that. you were searching for me but I wasn’t replying you.’ I asked why he did this he replied nothing. Yesterday too we were exchanging msgs I asked him why he did so he simply replied ‘ I don’t know’. I want to ask especially the guys over here. What he means?

    Thank you all.

    August 24, 2015 at 11:05 am #82256
    Brian
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    As far as his apologizing goes, it seems that he was sorry for upsetting you. Maybe he’s going through a rough time or something, and isn’t ready to talk about it just yet? Maybe his saying “there is no problem” is his way of expressing not wanting to talk about it? These are just suggestions; I don’t know him, of course.

    What does “I won’t move until he doesn’t reply me” mean?

    August 24, 2015 at 3:07 pm #82295
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucie:

    When you talk to anyone, say what you mean and be clear about it, the best you can. Encourage your friends to be honest with you by asking open ended questions and giving them the comfort to answer honestly. When your (ex?) best friend ignored you and then said he doesn’t know why he ignored you that means he is not honest with you. He may be angry with you. He may not want to communicate with you- actually he most definitely did not want to communicate with you every time he read a message from you and did not answer you.

    Give honesty and be receptive to it and you will have the best chance of getting the answers that you need.

    anita

    August 25, 2015 at 1:23 pm #82365
    Jodi
    Participant

    No one can really tell you what your bf mean but your bf. We would all just be guessing at best. Take Anita’s suggestions about having a conversation with him using open ended questions to get him to talk more and communicate. Best of luck!

    ~Jodi

    August 31, 2015 at 1:14 am #82611
    Lucie
    Participant

    @Brian & Anita
    Hi dear, actually i mean this like i’m not of course going anywhere until he replies me, i’m waiting for a reply. I frankly tell you i called him several times but i think he blocked my number on his phone too. i was upset i asked him. he said nothing. still messaging on messenger that is what is going on. I really don’t know what upsets him. As far as i know him he’s very practical guy. He does not fall much in emotions.

    August 31, 2015 at 1:21 am #82612
    Lucie
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    @Anita

    Hi dear, you’re right about the open ended questions and more communication. But he has always been a yes or no guy while texting. He does not like long messages he may not read them. He himself told me. If we talk then only he expresses himself but not while messaging. Now he has even blocked my number; we are not talking neither he has called me yet. Its his ego problem or i don’t know what’s the reason.

    August 31, 2015 at 1:22 am #82613
    Lucie
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    @ Jodi
    Hi dear thanks for the encouragement. i just hope it turns out to be good in future days. 🙂

    August 31, 2015 at 8:07 am #82620
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucie:

    I suppose him blocking your number is all the honesty you are going to get from him. You want more, an explanation, but he is only willing to give you this: ‘I am blocking your number (meaning: ‘I do not want to communicate with you. I do not want you in my life.’)

    So if you agree with this, then it is the answer to the title question of your thread: what “I don’t know means??”

    anita

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