@Helcat, I can see you are a good hearted person. My intent was to mirror what was given to me by Brian. Those were the boundaries set by him. Not only from this post but others included. I meant what I said. What goes around comes around. It is a good thing to learn if one wants to “getting along in society, when one is not normal”.

I have no pity for those who claim to be “not normal”. Also, no sympathy for those who cried out for help and reject anyone along the way. That I will leave that for those (psychotherapists) who are paid by the people who claim to be “not normal”. That kind of mind set does not need to be reinforced by pity or sympathy from me.

Personally, I will speak to anyone who wants to have a conversation. I am not the one who said, “I really would rather someone not talk to me at all than say a few meaningless phrases out of obligation. I am not disrespectful to someone unless I say something disrespectful.” That was a quote from Brian. I am more than willing to hear others’ opinions as long as they are willing to have a conversation. But, conversation means a a two way communication.

A few meaningless phrases, “Nice weather we are having?” “Good to meet you” People say it to be nice. Brian would rather be honest and not say those things. Whether one means it or not, it is the “norm” in society to be polite. It is what getting along means.

• This reply was modified 2 years, 8 months ago by Tommy.

@Helcat, no apologies necessary. You are a good person and try to be helpful. Many people need that kindness. Brian’s position has softened due to your (and others) efforts.

• This reply was modified 2 years, 8 months ago by Tommy.