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  • July 1, 2016 at 2:00 pm #108680
    Nekoshema
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    stick to your morals in the end, but if someone did a good job at work, you should say ‘good job on that report’ to be nice, instead of turning up your nose at them because they’re kind of a jerk. you wouldn’t want that planting a bitter seed inside you and it slowly grows until you’re grumpy and don’t know why. some people will overlook things because the person can make them laugh or help them in times of need. i wouldn’t try to be buddy-buddy with the guy, but at least be civil. best of luck to you.

    July 1, 2016 at 4:24 pm #108688
    Anonymous
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    Dear vidalevi:

    My input: If he disrespects you personally or if he disrespects another person in your presence, a woman perhaps, then assert yourself: tell him that what he just said is wrong, hurtful, to you or to the woman present. If he achieves something professionally, he has lots of people praising him already, you don’t need to join the crowd praising him.

    So if he is not abusing you or someone in your presence then don’t praise him, flatter him, smile at him – all this is not genuine on your part. Simply express nothing to him.

    If a woman complains to you about him outside his presence, suggest that she asserts herself with him. Talking about him otherwise is gossip and is not a good practice at work or elsewhere.

    anita

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