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  • January 1, 2017 at 9:17 am #124206
    Anonymous
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    Dear Linda:

    That she puts herself first, is a good thing. It is a good thing for her to make her interactions and relationships a Winning proposition for her. But your job is to make your interactions and relationships a Winning proposition for you. And so, a good, healthy relationship is a Win-Win, a Win for both parties.

    When you share with her your problems and she interrupts you “and say that I have to believe in God and trust the universe”- that is rude of her, rude to interrupt you and try to force her beliefs on you. When she judges you as melodramatic, she is also rude. No wonder you don’t want to share your tests results with her-

    And so, if I was you, I would remove her from my list of friends, not consider her a friend anymore and no longer interact with her as a friend. If she and you share other friends and you want to keep the group association going, do so as long as you don’t interact with her as a friend.

    anita

    January 1, 2017 at 1:57 pm #124235
    JOHN
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    I think when you´re friends with somebody the relationship is a compromise, you find a mid ground of agreement but also embrace the conflict of opinions, this is what will make your relationship interesting but not hate the person, it´s good that she isn´t just passive and bows down at conflict but at the same time she sounds like she´s being too aggressive and toxic to deal with. In my opinion I think you should tell her she´s being too aggressive then distance yourself from her, leave it for a while (like a year) then give it another shot in the future. People do change over time based on new experiences so there´s alway´s another chance, hope this helps <3 🙂

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