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  • July 5, 2018 at 8:41 am #215553
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kathleen:

    Welcome  back!

    Maybe something to learn is to ask a man if he has a girlfriend when you feel this deep connection. You talked with him for hours during the course of three events before you bought the car from him. Sometimes during that time you could have asked.

    What do you think about my suggestion of this practical learning opportunity?

    anita

    July 5, 2018 at 2:44 pm #215605
    Kathleen
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    Anita,

    Thank you for the welcome. Surely I should have asked, but even if he told me in the first few minutes of our meeting, I still would have felt the deep connection. So I feel the lesson is less about asking people whether they’re single or not, and more about something else. I just can’t figure out what that lesson is. Does that make sense? A few months back I posted a similar question. While it was a different person I feel like I keep finding people who I feel are “perfect” but are unavailable; and the ones I deem “imperfect” are the ones who are available. I must have some sort of limiting belief which prevents me from loving available people!!

     

    July 6, 2018 at 6:02 am #215669
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kathleen:

    In search for that lesson to be learned, considering you having “some sort of limiting belief which prevents (you) from loving available people”-

    You didn’t know this man was unavailable, that is involved in another relationship, until after you felt the soul mate connection with him, so how can his unavailability been a factor in the formation of the connection you made with him?

    The woman ten year your senior, from the other thread, you didn’t share there that she was unavailable in any way, being involved in another relationship. Was she?

    anita

    July 6, 2018 at 9:08 am #215693
    Kathleen
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    Anita,

    You make a good point. And no, other than the fact she was older!

    July 6, 2018 at 9:23 am #215697
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kathleen:

    Then you are not attracted to unavailable people. It is just that some people you are or will be attracted to are unavailable.

    anita

    July 7, 2018 at 10:11 am #215793
    JD
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    Maybe the connection with him is still the universe giving you the opportunity to practice the things you wanted, even if the outcome isn’t what you thought it would be. I like to think we have different levels of connections with some people and have more than one soulmate.

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