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    L
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    Hi purnita,

    You said yourself that “if it’s meant to be, it will be.” However, there’s only so much you can do. Give him and his family some time to come around and work things out, but don’t wait around forever. You have to do what you need to do in order to make you happy. Eventually, that could mean leaving behind the relationship. You can’t force anything, you can only give things your best shot and then let it be. Don’t torture yourself with images of what “has to be” or what “should be,” and just concentrate more on “what is” and knowing yourself. I think that knowing yourself is how you will figure out if he is really the one god sent for you.
    Hope I could help!

    #69772
    Adam
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    Hey,
    The more your force something, the more you’re going to suffer for it. Again, you said what will be, will be. It’s important that you believe that. By not accepting what you’re going through, you’re preventing other things, positive things, from entering into your life. The faster you accept this and let it go the faster you’ll begin moving forward again.

    Be strong, breathe and accept.

    thepathofaronin.blogspot.com is my personal blog. Use it if you need advice.

    #69781
    purnita
    Participant

    Hi L & Adam
    U ppl are right. I decided to be friends with him thinking that I will be able to manage it and one day he will realise my worth and come back. But that is stupid of me because by keeping this door open I am closing all other doors to my success. I am an achiever and have lots of dreams for me and my family. I need to bring a formal closure to this relationship only then I will be able to live for myself again.

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