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Finding an answer to the meaning of life and overcoming my fear of death

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    Will
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    I like this a lot. I have very similar views to yours: I think death just means nonexistence, and there’s no need to fear it because you won’t be there to experience it. The end may be painful and sad, but death itself I think of as rest, relief, and yes, peace.

    As for meaning, we all make this ourselves, the whole messy wibbly-wobbly interlinked biosphere. None of us asked to be here, and none of us were given a task to do or a test to pass. We just put those on ourselves and each other. I think the only test is how the things you do make yourself and others happy or miserable. We all prefer happiness to misery, so let’s try to work for happiness when we can. That’s my purpose as I see it.

    Thanks for your post. It’s nice to read about someone getting on well with themselves. šŸ™‚

    #54647
    The Ruminant
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    I believe in an afterlife, but I’m also fine with the idea that there is none. To me this whole thing about meaning of life and why are we here, and whether there is or isn’t an afterlife, is something that I’ve accepted I can not understand, nor do I need to. Just like when children are just learning basic things like walking and talking and grabbing things, you can’t expect them to comprehend extremely complex things. If they claim to understand them, then there is a very good chance that they actually don’t, but simply think that they do. Like ā€œI know how television and radio works: you switch them on!ā€ In the same way, you can’t expect children to get everything right, and when they don’t, you can’t punish them disproportionately. That would make no sense.

    I become quite happy when I accept the ā€œchild of the universeā€ role and try to focus on the simple things that are within my grasp. It is not my job to understand how everything works, even though I do examine everything and try to understand it. So I guess what I’m trying to say that it’s great to be curious and ponder about things, but it’s also great to be able to admit that I simply don’t know everything and I don’t have to. The world will continue to function the way it functions regardless of my comprehension of it. Death and what happens after that are out of my hands, no matter what I do, so why worry?

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