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  • #81711
    Anonymous
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    Dear Glet:

    you wrote that in your eyes “he is perfection.” I sugest you get to know his (or any person who you consider perfect) imperfections, his insecurities, fears and such. There will be so many imperfections to notice, examine, help him examine that you will forget all about yours… for a while, at times. You asked how to accept his love- by viewing his imperfections, your imperfections, working- through commuincation with him- about accepting your and his imperfections.
    anita

    #81760
    Glet
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    Dear Anita

    thank you for replying..
    well maybe I should have used a different word instead of perfect…
    I do know his insecurities,his fears and they are even things about him that I don’t always like but most of the times and in big situations..he always does the right thing..takes the right direction decisions..i fell in love with his maturity and his ability to stay calm all times…
    back to me…
    I did talk to him about my insecurities,he knows about my past and I have known him for 2years…he understands me but the problem is each time we have a misunderstanding or sometimes when I just have one of my moments,I would get scared..i feel so vulnerable with him cause he knows so much about me..i freak out and I try to push him away…i don’t want to keep doing that..i want to be able to just accept that he loves me despite knowing about my insecurities and fears….and not worry all the time that he will leave

    #81763
    Anonymous
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    Deasr Glet:

    What is it about you that you believe is unlovable? When did you start believing that? In what interactions/ with whom were you interacting when you formed this belief, that you are unlovable?

    anita

    #81764
    Glet
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    perhaps you don’t remember I’ve talked to you before about my insecurities…it was on another thread…so maybe I can go and continue this on that thread..will that be okay?

    #81765
    Anonymous
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    Dear Glet:

    Definitely-
    anita

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