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  • March 17, 2015 at 10:28 am #74046
    Will
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    Trust your heart. You need to move. I don’t know when or how this will be possible, but it’s worth working for. Promise yourself you will move, and see if you breathe a little easier.

    March 17, 2015 at 3:51 pm #74064
    Debs
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    The best way is to be honest about your tied up feelings with your husband. He would understand if he truly cares for your well being.Atleast ask him a definite time period within which he is certain about moving to another city.You deserve a life of your own in a way you want.Place matters great deal.I feel how suffocated you must be feeling.Take care!

    March 17, 2015 at 6:47 pm #74069
    RC
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    Hi Laia,
    I think both responses you received contain important points: give yourself the option to leave. This is your life and you must make the right decision for yourself and for your children. Speak with your husband – if you cannot communicate your feelings of being trapped and unable to breathe (which are very powerful feelings indeed), then it is definitely time to start down a new path. Feeling depressed and lonely can be very crippling indeed, but feeling trapped physically and mentally makes it all so much worse. If you were to move on with your own life, what would that entail? What would need to be done? What arrangements would need to be made? If you were to stay, what would need to change? Decide what YOU want, and go for it.

    Best of luck.

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