Hi Tamanna,
I’m sorry to say it sounds like the girl you thought was your friend was never really a friend at all. if everyone in the group is excluding you, then it doesn’t sound like they are friends either. Friends just don’t do that to each other. They don’t intentionally set out to hurt someone they care about. And they stand up for you if someone is talking you down. Potential new friends are everywhere. If you are in school, go up to someone sitting alone and see if you can start a conversation. There are so many people out there who are starved for companionship, you don’t need “friends” who deliberately hurt you. If you are shy about talking to some one new, find something you like about that person and mention it (“I like your earrings” or “Hey I’ve read that book too, what do you think of it?” Or even “Those shoes are AWESOME!”). I’ll bet if you practice this little trick you will be surrounded by people who care about you!
Good luck!
XO Chris

Hi Tamanna,
You are welcome!
I understand that it is difficult. Many people in life do not have the correct information about how to handle things that come up in lie. For that reason, it is difficult when one person goes out of their way to poison the minds of people against another person.
One thing that you can do is talk to one of the people in the group who might be willing to talk to you and ask him honestly what this girl is saying about you. Chances are that she has told you things that are not nice about him as well. If that is the case, tell him what this girl has been saying about him. Make sure you only tell him true facts and not any embellishment. If she is doing this this and you make the truth known, and if the guy you are talking to is a positive person he will not listen to this other girl any more. Nobody likes to be lied to and when they find out, the shun the source of the lies.
Once you have cleared the air with the one person, go onto the next and ask him what this girl has been saying about you and clear the air there too. If these people are decent, kind people, they will realize that they have been lied to and that this other girl is the source of those harmful lies.
If no one agrees to talk to you or refuse to clear the air with you, it is a sign that they are not the type of people you should be around. It would be a sign that they deal in lies themselves and it is ok with them. People like that, you trust at your peril because the way you are feeling now, you will feel again when they betray you later.
I hope this helps you. Good luck!
XO Chris

You are so welcome Tamanna! I ma so glad I was able to help you. I think you have made the right decision. You have so much greatness to give to the world and you will find people who see that greatness and love you for who you are. Meanwhile look for greatness in them and you will help them too. Good luck! :)!

XO Chris