So I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month. Things were going great at first, he would get really excited to see me, told me he missed me, paid for our dates. We communicated mostly through text and he would reply rather quickly. As time passed the time he took to reply became longer, which didn’t bother me. I know people are busy. But then it got to the point where sometimes I wouldn’t get a reply until the next day. Sometimes he would just say he was busy or not have a reason at all. It was just strange and worried me but i brushed it off. And then other days the replies were fast.

About a week ago he said he was gonna come see me after a concert he was attending and he never showed up. The next day he explained it was because he got high and fell asleep at his friends house. I said it was okay. Then the following week we were having a discussion about what we were doing ( thru text) he told me he took me seriously and I told him I took him serious as well. Then he told me we could catch a movie if he wasn’t busy. Next day I don’t hear from him at all. He was the last person to text the night before (idk if that makes a difference, it was a “goodnight” text) Then I eventually text him and ask him if hes coming and he never replied. So next morning I expressed to him how his actions and words confused me.

And he apologized to me, told me that he was having a busy and confusing few weeks and that he was gonna get his stuff together and promised he’ll get better. But at this point I felt fed up, I felt as though he knew I was into him and used that to his advantage. So I told him to just leave me alone. And now I feel sad. I feel like giving him another chance because perhaps he really was going through a stressful time. Or that could just be my empathetic and sensitive nature tryna see the best in others and holding on when I should probably let go. But I just really miss him and I told him I was done with him when I was emotionally charged and I regret it now. I don’t know what to do?