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    bwale
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    Hi everyone. So I recently joined this dating site and I started talking to some guy called Mark. We talked on and off for a while as we live in different countries. So then I started talking to a guy called Howard, I liked him for a short while and we started dating immediately (obviously infatuation ). Weeks later I realised I didn’t want him any more. I didn’t want to break his heart so I stringed him along. I then started seeing Gabriel who I have no feelings for whatsoever, I’m equally stringing him along which is not fair at all. I eventually broke up with Howard. Then recently Mark reappeared and this time we talked more and I felt a little little for him. So I decided to go see him. I lied to Gabriel about it which is terrible and I’ve been avoiding him for a month. So I went to see Mark so he put his phone on the table and a message from a girl from the dating site came through. It got me curious, I checked his messages and he was planning wild nights with girls after I leave. So Mark manages a night club , we went there around 10 and he said he works till 6, so I suggested he could take me home around 2. When I was seeing his messages and girl was like thank you for the wonderful night.i was shocked so he took me home so he could remain with other girls. So I checked my profile on the dating website, apparently some guy liked me. I never talked to that guy but he happens to be a friend to mark. So I left marks country today and he didn’t see me off because he was at the gym apparently, he later on asked me about his friend. I didn’t talk to his friend, but he was like why are you still on the site blah blah but I don’t know how to tell him about his shit and that he’s equally on the site. Please help me on how to go about this mess

    #122751
    Anonymous
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    Dear bwale:

    Don’t date Mark- bad idea. Use the site to get to know men without getting intimate with them. In previous threads, you shared that your father is controlling of your mother (and you) and that she doesn’t stand up to him for her own sake, or for your sake. You wrote that you don’t want to be like her. So, don’t let a men on the dating site control what happens to you.

    If you do not get involved physically with these men and if you study them with objectivity, you will be free to get to know them without the heavy price of “feeling like crap” (the title of your thread).

    anita

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