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  • August 21, 2013 at 8:50 pm #40953
    Matt
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    Sassy,

    Trust your gut, what you say makes sense to me. Remember hooks have barbs. 🙂

    With warmth,
    Matt

    August 23, 2013 at 12:37 pm #41069
    Sassypants
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    It’s so weird how timing is in the world. After I sat and thought about my ex making contact the next night a guy who I play vball with gave me his number. It was weird to me how is transpired. I knew the guy was from an area so I mentioned a good place to go hiking. He took it as an invite, I only meant it as to let him know. Now he wants to go there together. I know I am not ready to date, however wouldn’t mind a friend. How do I be clear about this as I don’t want to give the relationship a title? As far as the ex my gut was to respond via snail mail with a thank you note.

    August 23, 2013 at 2:44 pm #41073
    Matt
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    Sassy,

    Going hiking isn’t a marriage proposal. 🙂 If it comes up, or if he’s giving signals like he wants to do something more than you want to, perhaps that would be a good time to put up boundaries. Until then, maybe you could just relax, go hiking, see nature. Let the steps unfold, no need to push or pull at them. 🙂

    With warmth,
    Matt

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