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  • June 8, 2015 at 9:42 pm #77916
    Brian Cyr
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    Lucy,

    When my ex girlfriend dumped about 2 months ago the first thing I wanted to do was to try and get things back to normal. That was a huge mistake and I ended up hurting myself in the process. If you are willing, forgive him but if you think that spending time would negatively affect your emotions and well being, don’t. You don’t owe this person anything and it’s not worth getting hurt over if you think that will happen. On the other hand if you can be friends with this person and be happy, I encourage you to do so. It’s clear that he’s giving you the power here, so use it to your advantage, I hope this helps! Good luck!

    Brian

    June 9, 2015 at 12:23 am #77917
    Sweet
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    Lucy,

    You should not revert back to him. Its over its over. Whats the point of getting back to someone who does care enough for 6 months to get in touch with you. You shouldnt have people in your life, who takes you for Granted. How come all of a sudden he started dreaming of you. You should not be in any relation with an option to move out, just because you have an option. No, then it will never work out.Because you dont have stability back in your mind.
    Love your life, love the way things are.. And you will have someone at the right time…

    June 9, 2015 at 7:51 am #77925
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lucy:
    No way I would let him back into your life. I would either not respond to him at all or, if you can via a text message or a short email (I would prefer, if I was you, to not talk to him in person or on the phone) write to him that you forgive him and that you have moved on and wish he does the same.
    anita

    June 14, 2015 at 8:57 pm #78229
    kristenf
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    Dear Lucy,

    I agree with Anita. Thank him for his apology, let him know you have forgiven him, and move on through email. No need to see or speak to him in person or over the phone. If he is sincere about his apology and honestly knows what he has done wrong and how he has hurt you, then he should be able to unselfishly honor your boundaries and let you go. If not, it’s just another reminder to stay away from him.

    Kristen

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