Write this down and say it everyday:

God, grant me the serenity
. to accept the
things I cannot change.

The courage to change
the things I can.

And the wisdom to know
the difference.

Do not hate yourself over things you have very little control of. In fact, take your entire notion of ‘control’ out. ‘Control’ is an illusion. At any given moment and time your life may be dramatically altered or taken. In this sense, let go of your vow and belief that you must take care of her. She, too, must recognize her own suffering(s) and take her own action(s) if she wishes better for herself. The fault is not entirely yours therefore come to some peace with this.

Most importantly, believe that you will come out okay. Without belief, there is no point in trying. You will find an answer though do not be surprised if it’s not one you’ve envisioned. As I’ve said, work on your own being, on how to better it. Smile with love, care and happiness when you see her and through your own dealings she may find that she wants the exact happiness you portray, leading her to finally take action(s). 😉

Don’t worry, you’ll make it!

Al

This may be a bit of the needed bitter medicine..but are you obsessed with this person?…are your extremely strong feelings for this person reciprocated ?..even if you care about someone they do not necessarily have to care for you back…If you ask me, the solution lies within you and not any external entity, this person may become your best friend or sister as you say and shower you with all the affection..you are then going to find some other “anchor” to seek answers to your troubles…and the real answer always lies within you

Hi Brandon,

Reading your messages regarding this topic made me register to provide you with an answer that might surprise you but that can also be easily verified:
This lady is most likely to be one of your TWINFLAMES!
The pain you feel when you think of her is the pain in the heart that twinflames feel when they are physically separated. Together they are COMPLETE & WHOLE.

A twinflame is a soul mate but a soul mate is not necessarily a twinflame though. There are a lot of confusion between these 2 terms.
Soul mates are people that belong to the same soul group, life after lives but not necessarily part of the same being.

When twinflames meet usually one is more aware spiritually than the other. The feelings are overwhelming & so powerful that it can be frightening.

“The eyes are the mirror of the soul” so in effect your soul recognised this lady from previous lives. I suggest that you get more info about twinflames on the net or on youTube. You will identify better with what has been happening to you.

Basically, when a spark of life is initially created, it can divide between 2 to 7 other beings (males and females) so in effect you are part of one another hence the term: twinflames.

It does not mean that you are an exact replica of one another, it means that together you complete each other! you will have a lot in common, even some of the mannerisms will be the same. The Love between twinflames is unconditional: it is true Love. This is why I say that this can be overwhelming & even frightening for the one who is not spiritually aware or awaken.
At night your souls are likely to reunite too.

As part of their learning in life, twinflames can be put in the same family environment. This means that one of your twinflames could be you mother or father or sibling or son or daughter & often one of the grand parents or just a friend hence a strong bond with that person. This implies that the reunion of twinflames is not always sexual.
Spiritually they are guiding each other & look after each other with a strong sense of protection.

How can you verify that? Find an Hypnotherapist who can do a past life regression. Once in a deep state of relaxation (hypnotic) the practitioner can invite this lady to come in into your 3rd eye. You will see her like you see people when you are dreaming. You will recall everything & be in total control. If you are twinflames you can be made to merge together to prove that you are one of the same person hence this very strong connection! or the practitioner can just ask directly your subconscious if this lady is indeed one of your twinflames. The conscious can liar but the subconscious never lies 😉

YES: The answers you so seek are already within your subconscious, hypnosis is just a mean to bypass your consciousness to tap in directly onto your subconscious.

I am myself an Hypnotherapist & have done this type of work for a lot of clients. This was life changing for them as they got a lot of answers from their subconscious including what were their role in life & their “learnings” to go on the path they were meant to go on.

I too experienced the same feelings as you did when I met my one & only twinflame. He was the aware one whereas I was the unaware one.
This is also why I became an hypnotherapist & a Reiki master to help others 😉

Challenges are meant to be dealt individually, trying to help too much someone makes it actually much more difficult for them because one or more detrimental spiritual cords will then link you together. Again, an Hypnotherapist can make you see these cords & make you cut the bad one only, to free you at a healthy level. The main function of the subconscious is to protect you at all cost so it will never allow you to cut the good cords: it won’t even let you see them 😉

I hope this will help you but I hope you got some vital answers the last few months for you to pursue your life as you are meant to.

Lots of Love & Light!