Dear Erin:

Regarding your ex, you wrote: “every part of me wanted to be with him”- not every part. There was a part of you that “didn’t trust he could grow in the same direction” as you. Do you want to elaborate on this part?

Regarding your current boyfriend, you wrote: “if you were to ask anyone, he’s been the guy I’ve been looking for”. The only one whose answer matters is your answer. So I ask you: what is it that you’ve been looking for in a guy?

I ask questions because I don’t have enough information to suggest anything possibly useful to you. Maybe with more information I will be able to.

anita