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  • #270733
    Anonymous
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    Dear Eli:

    You are welcome. What  he told you, “I can not count on you and you don’t give me  any power to move mountain for you and leave my wife” makes  no sense: the power to get a divorce is his, his wife and the courts, not yours. You don’t have the power to go to the courts and say: I want that  man to divorce that  woman. He has to request a divorce, or she has to request it.

    Regarding his claim that you are not stable, I suppose as a thing, an object, you are not  stable. If you were really a thing, then for a thing you  are  unstable. But a human, unlike a  thing, has feelings, happy at one time, sad  at another,  scared or  angry. He too is unstable  that way.

    anita

     

     

    #270767
    Eli
    Participant

    Dear Anita thanks for your care next week I will go to other city I start since today to moving .wish the luck for me please I will update you and talking with you very day .thanks anita

    #270769
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    You are welcome. I will be  looking forward to your posts and updates. I hope you do post every day. I do wish you luck and good choices, small and big, every step of  your way. Take good care of yourself. I will soon be away from the computer and back in about sixteen hours.

    anita

    #270771
    Eli
    Participant

    Sure dear Anita take care of your self please I like to talk with you

    #270773
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    Thank you.  I like talking with you too. I will be here for you when you return, every day.

    anita

    #270803
    Eli
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    Marry Christmas

    I am not bad I am not good I just cried it is not easy I change my phone numbers delete all his iformation even if I want I can not check and contact him maybe just by email .I am wondered how he accept all this not even one time try take me back or contact me I am sure I am don’t had any value for him just object for use no thing more .

    It’s big anger inside me I want to fight if I don’t control my self I can have fight with Evey body for Evey thing really I don’t know why it scared me .

    #270811
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    Congratulations for doing all the right things. Remember  I wrote to you that I don’t have the right to  have power over your life, that no one on this site does? It is still true. This is because I  am not there  now with you to help you, to be  there in person and  make life easier for you, less difficult.

    But I  have been in your place many times.  I had the difficult life that you are having now and  I was all alone. I  wish I kept  doing the  right things for myself at those  times, instead of giving  up and  giving in, going  back to  bad relationships and  situations or going to new relationships  or situations that were as bad or  worse.

    The key now is to not do that, to not give up even though you feel fear and anger. Persist, don’t give up on doing  what  is right  for you.

    When this man told you that even  your family doesn’t  love you (I don’t remember the  exact words), he meant that you don’t have value  because  your family, your mother for one, doesn’t love you or doesn’t see the value in you. He was very wrong.

    See,  my mother didn’t  see the value in me, but not  because I didn’t  have value. She was  blind  to me and  my  value. She saw me as an object, a thing, not a person.

    Keep your value as a person in mind, and  keep doing  what is right  for you regardless of  how you feel. Post anytime and Merry Christmas to you too.

    anita

    #270837
    Eli
    Participant

    Dear Anita

    I do not know how to start. I deleted him from my life but yet he is in my mind din my heart I can not control my tears I am worried I can not find any body like him and fall in love again .I know it’s the best I left him but Anita there is one problem that I can not write here I am worried about write here is it other way I can contact you and explain this in email for you please is it possible

    #270841
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    I don’t communicate with anyone really, almost no one, on regular email.

    I don’t see how information shared here can hurt you. Maybe  it  can, but can you tell me how it can possibly hurt you?

    And maybe you can describe the situation without a very specific detail and still make yourself clear enough?

    anita

    #270855
    Eli
    Participant

    Dear Anita for make excuse for leaving my home land I said to people I am going to continue my education and new job and because he really supported me so good they believed but now after 5 years how I said oh I don’t have any work experience and I don’t have any degree from university I can not explain more with details but it’s about some thing like this how I said I was not in any uni and …

    #270857
    Eli
    Participant

    I am not going back to my home land I am going to other state but even in some profiles in internet I have very waooo job title that it is fake I don’t know what to do even this title and story about education it was related to him I don’t know how to fix it and it can really effected to my future life and the last effect is for finding job

    #270859
    Eli
    Participant

    I am sorry but because I mentioned his nationality and his life an Shia kids age I some details I can not explain more about what was my title job in his companies and how it happend and about university and some thing like this because I am really worried maybe some body read and understand and it can make my life more hell

    #270865
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    One thing you are worried about is someone reading this thread and figuring out who you are and who this man is that you wrote about. One solution is that you no longer post  on this thread and start a new thread. When you leave this thread alone it will no longer appear on the first page and move back to back pages. You and I can continue to communicate on a new thread where no details about this man will be mentioned. It is easy to start a new thread, as easy  as it was  starting  this thread.

    Would you like to do this next? if so, I will wait half an hour or so for your new thread and will respond to it  next.

    anita

    #270871
    Eli
    Participant

    I am not sure Anita it can help it can even make problem even in new topic I can not explain more just I can say it can be some thing happens inleggal in my name in his company and its complex so thanks for your care dear Anita I sign some paper like sharing in his company and face for some deals ….

    #270877
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Eli:

    What I understand from your recent few posts is that you presented untrue  information to people and online regarding a job title and your education. Was the presentation of such false information illegal though?

    If it is illegal I understand your concern and you are welcome to not answer my question in this post. You are welcome to not post again as well. Start a  new thread or not.

    I think that the chances that someone you know will be reading your thread here is very small, it being that members  here are from all  over the world, and as far as I know, there are not too many people participating in the Forums, many come and go, so at any one time, not a lot  of  people are reading these posts, I don’t think.

    anita

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