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December 24, 2018 at 7:42 am #270733AnonymousGuest
Dear Eli:
You are welcome. What he told you, “I can not count on you and you don’t give me any power to move mountain for you and leave my wife” makes no sense: the power to get a divorce is his, his wife and the courts, not yours. You don’t have the power to go to the courts and say: I want that man to divorce that woman. He has to request a divorce, or she has to request it.
Regarding his claim that you are not stable, I suppose as a thing, an object, you are not stable. If you were really a thing, then for a thing you are unstable. But a human, unlike a thing, has feelings, happy at one time, sad at another, scared or angry. He too is unstable that way.
anita
December 24, 2018 at 11:03 am #270767EliParticipantDear Anita thanks for your care next week I will go to other city I start since today to moving .wish the luck for me please I will update you and talking with you very day .thanks anita
December 24, 2018 at 11:28 am #270769AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
You are welcome. I will be looking forward to your posts and updates. I hope you do post every day. I do wish you luck and good choices, small and big, every step of your way. Take good care of yourself. I will soon be away from the computer and back in about sixteen hours.
anita
December 24, 2018 at 11:35 am #270771EliParticipantSure dear Anita take care of your self please I like to talk with you
December 24, 2018 at 11:47 am #270773AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
Thank you. I like talking with you too. I will be here for you when you return, every day.
anita
December 25, 2018 at 4:23 am #270803EliParticipantDear Anita
Marry Christmas
I am not bad I am not good I just cried it is not easy I change my phone numbers delete all his iformation even if I want I can not check and contact him maybe just by email .I am wondered how he accept all this not even one time try take me back or contact me I am sure I am don’t had any value for him just object for use no thing more .
It’s big anger inside me I want to fight if I don’t control my self I can have fight with Evey body for Evey thing really I don’t know why it scared me .
December 25, 2018 at 5:46 am #270811AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
Congratulations for doing all the right things. Remember I wrote to you that I don’t have the right to have power over your life, that no one on this site does? It is still true. This is because I am not there now with you to help you, to be there in person and make life easier for you, less difficult.
But I have been in your place many times. I had the difficult life that you are having now and I was all alone. I wish I kept doing the right things for myself at those times, instead of giving up and giving in, going back to bad relationships and situations or going to new relationships or situations that were as bad or worse.
The key now is to not do that, to not give up even though you feel fear and anger. Persist, don’t give up on doing what is right for you.
When this man told you that even your family doesn’t love you (I don’t remember the exact words), he meant that you don’t have value because your family, your mother for one, doesn’t love you or doesn’t see the value in you. He was very wrong.
See, my mother didn’t see the value in me, but not because I didn’t have value. She was blind to me and my value. She saw me as an object, a thing, not a person.
Keep your value as a person in mind, and keep doing what is right for you regardless of how you feel. Post anytime and Merry Christmas to you too.
anita
December 25, 2018 at 10:15 am #270837EliParticipantDear Anita
I do not know how to start. I deleted him from my life but yet he is in my mind din my heart I can not control my tears I am worried I can not find any body like him and fall in love again .I know it’s the best I left him but Anita there is one problem that I can not write here I am worried about write here is it other way I can contact you and explain this in email for you please is it possible
December 25, 2018 at 10:41 am #270841AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
I don’t communicate with anyone really, almost no one, on regular email.
I don’t see how information shared here can hurt you. Maybe it can, but can you tell me how it can possibly hurt you?
And maybe you can describe the situation without a very specific detail and still make yourself clear enough?
anita
December 25, 2018 at 12:14 pm #270855EliParticipantDear Anita for make excuse for leaving my home land I said to people I am going to continue my education and new job and because he really supported me so good they believed but now after 5 years how I said oh I don’t have any work experience and I don’t have any degree from university I can not explain more with details but it’s about some thing like this how I said I was not in any uni and …
December 25, 2018 at 12:16 pm #270857EliParticipantI am not going back to my home land I am going to other state but even in some profiles in internet I have very waooo job title that it is fake I don’t know what to do even this title and story about education it was related to him I don’t know how to fix it and it can really effected to my future life and the last effect is for finding job
December 25, 2018 at 12:19 pm #270859EliParticipantI am sorry but because I mentioned his nationality and his life an Shia kids age I some details I can not explain more about what was my title job in his companies and how it happend and about university and some thing like this because I am really worried maybe some body read and understand and it can make my life more hell
December 25, 2018 at 12:46 pm #270865AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
One thing you are worried about is someone reading this thread and figuring out who you are and who this man is that you wrote about. One solution is that you no longer post on this thread and start a new thread. When you leave this thread alone it will no longer appear on the first page and move back to back pages. You and I can continue to communicate on a new thread where no details about this man will be mentioned. It is easy to start a new thread, as easy as it was starting this thread.
Would you like to do this next? if so, I will wait half an hour or so for your new thread and will respond to it next.
anita
December 25, 2018 at 1:10 pm #270871EliParticipantI am not sure Anita it can help it can even make problem even in new topic I can not explain more just I can say it can be some thing happens inleggal in my name in his company and its complex so thanks for your care dear Anita I sign some paper like sharing in his company and face for some deals ….
December 25, 2018 at 1:29 pm #270877AnonymousGuestDear Eli:
What I understand from your recent few posts is that you presented untrue information to people and online regarding a job title and your education. Was the presentation of such false information illegal though?
If it is illegal I understand your concern and you are welcome to not answer my question in this post. You are welcome to not post again as well. Start a new thread or not.
I think that the chances that someone you know will be reading your thread here is very small, it being that members here are from all over the world, and as far as I know, there are not too many people participating in the Forums, many come and go, so at any one time, not a lot of people are reading these posts, I don’t think.
anita
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