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    Mark
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    Floella, It sounds like you really are not in sync with your husband. Do you share and collaborate on finances? budgeting? Do you talk honestly about how you are feeling? Know what is going on with him?
    If you really want to be in partnership with him and be in the marriage you want then I suggest you two sit down on a regular basis and not only share the hard, day-to-day stuff but to have that fun time together as well. Remember when you two were dating? Why you got married in the first place?

    Metta,
    Mark

    #48236
    Charlie Brown
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    Doing it for the kids sounds good on the surface but if you and your husband are miserable — believe me — so are the children. I am in need of similar advice myself, so I won’t pretend to have YOUR answers. However, I do want you to think about what kind of decisions you would want your children to make if they were in your situation. Since I tend to want more for my children than I want for myself — I just think about what I would want my children to do as adults and then I go for it! One tip, tell your husband how distant you feel from him and how fun is now appearing in other places. He’s probably having the same experience. Mine was. This way, if you do end up going your separate ways, wouldn’t it be better to go as friends? That would certainly make the children a bit more stable. Hope my thoughts help you in some small way. I’ll be praying for both of us.

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