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  • September 26, 2017 at 5:28 am #170307
    Anonymous
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    Dear PryingMimi:

    Welcome back.

    You wrote that you are a student making a little over minimum wage, but didn’t you post less than a year ago that you had a good paying job and you were living on your own, not with your mother, am I remembering correctly? If so, what happened to that job and are you living with your mother now?

    anita

    September 26, 2017 at 8:46 am #170379
    PearceHawk
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    Hey PryingMimi,

    You said, “we exercised every other oprion before me doing this.” I assure you meant option, not oprion, correct? Anyway, what were those options? Ask this because the elements that are in your options available to you do not include doing what you did, it was an option designed by you. What were the other options that you looked at?

    September 26, 2017 at 9:39 am #170393
    PryingMiMi
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    hi anita

     

    i did move back for my bachelors and started working home care which has pros n cons; great flexibility for class and work but crappy pay.

    September 26, 2017 at 9:50 am #170401
    Anonymous
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    Dear PryingMimi:

    Well, your mother struggled financially for a long time. A few years ago, her car was broken down for a month and you offered her your child support money to fix her car. You must have been legally a child then. If it is poor money management on her part, then you now share this practice by having written some bad checks.

    You are wondering how to communicate to her that you did so and as a result her bank account is being closed. I would suggest talking to her when she is relatively calm (although it would be a shame to spoil that calm), earlier in the day (so hopefully she could relax later in the day and sleep at night), use a calm voice, apologize sincerely.

    anita

     

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