For those who may know my story, I’ll say this again. I was friends with this girl name molly. She lives in the UK. We used to be really close since she dated this guy last year. She was very nice. Sometimes when I would get upset, I would Ttake my anger out on her,because she would barely spend time with me. Of course, I would feel guilty about it later on because I keep telling myself she’s such a nice girl. But later on whenever I asked to spend time with her, it would be excuse after excuse. With my other online friends, they would spend time with me without asking me to tell them! I understand that as friends we become busy as we’re going older. But she used to tell me that she loved me well be besties forever. I believed her. So anytime I would take my anger out, I would apolohize to her saying I’m sorry I didn’t mean it, I missed you a lot. She would say I know I can’t help it that I’m busy/I’m such a busy person or its okay babycakes. I want to believe that she still wants to be my friend,but since she’s dated her boyfriend, the excuses became even more. The more I asked to spend time with her ,the more drama it brought. We would get into argumenta with her saying I’m busy yet she wasn’t so busy to spend few weeks in Oregon with her boyfriend this summer or and that I have to keep asking her to Skype or spend a day with me we were able to do it once. Last month(Sept 2) she told me that her cellphone broke and that she’ll get one in 2 weeks. It’s October 11. She hasn’ messaged me. I spoke with a therapist and he told me that she’s been taking advantage of me and that she will keep doing what she has been doing aND that I deserve better. Along with she kept saying that she’s giving you false promises cause if she truly cares about you, she wouldnt do it. My best guy friend said something like that to me as well, along with 2 other people on this site. Because of them, I decided to stop being friends with her. But I started to cry later on. I want to believe that me not being her friend anymore will be a good thing gor me. A part of me wants to believe that she has never took advantage of me, but I’m tired of hfeeling distant from her. I’m tired of seeing a picture with her and her boyfriend on Facebook. I’m tired of her not talking to me. I even told her all this and she still kept doing it. Few months ago,I told her that I think it’ll be better if I stopped being friends with her but she said ” I still want to be her friend” but at the same time I don’t want to keep living in pain. Even though we haven’t spoken to each other in over a month, I don’t want to be with someone and their fake promises anymore. I want to believe that she was telling me the truth that she was busy and all but since she dated her bf, all I get from it were mainly distance false promises arguments and excuses. I felt that I should try harder to still be friends with her,but she won’t put in a lot of effort in our friendship unless I say something but the effort will be little. We used to spend so much time together and I did let her have few days to herself for her work and study. But I feel too tired and hurt. I don’t want to believe that I’m ooverreacting,but I don’t want to deal with her anymore