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  • October 17, 2015 at 7:00 pm #85574
    Anonymous
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    Dear alphabetsoup:

    I read almost all of your post and understood very, very little. Your post does read to me a lot like an alphabet soup. Kind of messy. You wrote you had communication problems with your ex boyfriend. Well, I am having problems understanding you. If you would like, if you have the time and the motivation, will you re-write your post in a very clear way, much, much shorter and clear. A paragraph or two, short and clear.

    I will be glad to read such and respond.

    anita

    October 17, 2015 at 8:30 pm #85576
    Adrianna
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    From reading this, it sounds that you are happy with your new guy and that he is giving you what you want most (open honest conversations that you could never have with your ex). It’s nice that your ex wants to make efforts, but his lack of communication is part of his personality and I doubt that will change. You guys love each other but don’t sound like a good personality fit. I think it’s important for you guys to clear up the break-up so you know where you stand with each other. It’s normal that it hurts as he is the one you were imagining spending your life with. But I think you are better off with your new guy who is understanding and gives you what you need.

    October 18, 2015 at 2:16 pm #85617
    Lori
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    Hi alphabetsoup,

    So your exSO calls to tell you that he wants more than anything to fix things with you, and when you tell him that you too want that but you need the relationship to progress slowly, he suddenly changes his mind? Did I read that right? If so, that’s rather immature behavior on his part, don’t you think?

    Where you surprised that he did that? How did it make you feel? Maybe a little relieved?

    Lori

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