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  • March 26, 2014 at 1:33 pm #53596
    Kelly
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    Nothing ventured, nothing gained Ron. If you’re having personal discussions with her, it would seem to me that there’s some indication she may be receptive to something more than friends. But you don’t know if you don’t ask. If she’s a true friend, even if she’s not interested in a romantic relationship, she will handle your feelings delicately and with love. Good luck.

    March 26, 2014 at 3:35 pm #53603
    Helen
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    Dear Ron

    This situation is tricky, and I understand that you fear the loss of a friend. But I believe in 2 great outcomes for this situation: 1) you tell her how you’ve felt about her for the last years and you become a couple. 2) You tell her and she does not feel the same way – but you can stay friends. Yes, this will be painful, and yes, you will feel rejected if she doesn’t see you as a possible partner for an intimate relationship. But if you are truly great friends, with a little distance, you will be able to figure it out.

    I would tell her, because life is so short and it is not often that we meet people who we truly connect with.

    So I hope I could help.

    All the best to you!

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