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Shirley.
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January 6, 2015 at 1:52 pm #70698
belove
ParticipantDear SugarBee,
It is such a tough situation you’re in. I am a single mother too. I remember the time when I was out of work, divorced with 2 young kids and trying to brush up on my knowledge to find a job. It’s a lot on your plate. I don’t know if I really have any advice. But just know that things will get better if you keep up with positive thoughts. You might have to reduce your course work, pick up some work to help with the situation. But when you’re strong and determined, you will get to your goal. It will just take a little longer. I can see that you’re a very strong and intelligent woman. You will get there. You will finish grad school. It’s sad but sometimes, the only person you can trust is yourself. Try to find your inner strength, try to take shelter in your inner peace while all these things are going on. And don’t forget to eat healthy and have some good rest, go for walks. Your kids need mommy to be in a good state of mind. Think of your kids. It might be helpful to repeat “This too shall pass” throughout your day. It’s the power of thoughts. Take care of yourself. Your calmer energy will have a positive influence on other people. May be read up a bit on how to deal with difficult people and not take on their energy.
My love to you and your kids.-
This reply was modified 10 years, 3 months ago by
tinybuddha.
January 6, 2015 at 9:17 pm #70745Oequan
ParticipantThanks for the positive reinforcements! I can take all that I can get considering it is a struggle consistently trying to figure how to make it all work. I will try as you told me, thanks again!
Sugar Bee
January 6, 2015 at 10:07 pm #70747naveen malla
Participanthelloo..sugar beeee….
whatever your name maybe !!!
but you’re. a real piece to follow …coz I’m in depression too…
and you know my age ?
you know my age ?
jus 16..
huuuuuuuu…
I’m happy past 3 months …
but things changed in jus 1 month..
started feeling horrible anger and severe sadness in the heart…but I’ve had. a strong willll…
I know..it…pretty sure I’m going to get out of this depression…
but you’re great ..sis….January 7, 2015 at 12:14 pm #70784Helen
ParticipantDear SugarBee
Your situation sounds tough, so I want to take a few minutes to tell you that you are amazing. I think it’s great that you want to finish grad school in order to provide your kids with a comfortable life. It’s a really responsible thing to do, as well as being important to do this for yourself.
What I didn’t understand from reading your story is why you’re no longer on speaking terms with your grandma? Does she blame you for her illness? That must be really painful. But my advice really is tough: eliminate people who are negative forces in your life. Turn to friends, your boyfriend… People who reinforce positivity into your life and lend a helping hand when needed.
I can’t imagine having kids and being in such a difficult situation. But on the other hand, you have purpose, you have something to hold on to, a reason why you get up every day. And they will be forever thankful, I’m sure.
You can do this! And please, get help for your depression. Make sure you take care of yourself, only then will you be able to take care of your kids.Much love
HelenJanuary 7, 2015 at 1:53 pm #70797Shirley
ParticipantI wanted to tell you how amazing you are! I just read a book called The Anatomy of Peace, which was a relatively easy and quick read but it really put things into perspective about how I react to people.
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