I’m in a relationship that I’ve called off twice with a great guy. He treats me wonderfully. I’m lucky to have him although I’ve broken up with him twice, fear of commitment after being a in not so healthy relationship.

Lately I have been thinking about my ex. Our chemistry was amazing and I often dream and still fantasize about the sex with him. I know this isn’t fair to my current boyfriend. I’ve been honest and expressed my sexual needs to my boyfriend. I know sex isn’t the most important part of a relationship, but I feel as if it is lacking. It was great in the beginning but has dwindled down. SO I’m left thinking about my past relationship, as the best I’ve ever had. Besides the sex, my relationship is healthy and happy in all other areas. I wish I could have the trust and communication I have now, but the sex from the past. My boyfriend is leaving for six months and I don’t want to make the wrong choice…. Help.