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    Matt
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    Kaypee,

    I’m so sorry for the losses you’ve been through, and suffering through losing a child, parent and two partners in such a short time would be trying for anyone. When we have grief, its important to be extra nourishing to ourselves, such as spending extra time being kind and gentle to our mind and body. For instance, you ask “why does he contact me?”, but it might be more gentle to yourself to ask “what is happening in my mind and heart when I read his messages, look at his FB?” and so forth. His side is a mystery, and remains unknown, but you deserve to be happy, and finding the activities that bring you happiness might be a great place to invest your efforts.

    For instance, perhaps your heart would heal and soften from going on walks in nature, watching comedy and laughing, taking a bath with candles, meditating, or creating some art. It can be so terribly hard to lose loved ones, either to death or disinterest, and our tender hearts need to be reminded of the warmth and light of the world. It takes time and many hugs, many tears. That’s ok, it just means that there is a lot of meaning to the relationship we lost. So we cry, give and receive hugs, and slowly, with time, heal the wounds. Namaste, sister, I hope you find love and light.

    With warmth,
    Matt

    #43251
    Alexey Sunly
    Participant

    Your most important relationship is with yourself, Kaypee! And it sounds to me like you are failing yourself, unfortunately… :/ So, what can you do about it!? Well, plenty actually 🙂 Please, check out this thread for starters: Are Your FEELINGS making your LIFE miserable? And then we’ll go from there!

    Thank you for sharing your struggles 🙂

    #43302
    Kaypee
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    Thanks Matt and Alexey for the inspiring inputs. As soon as I moved to my new place, I know I’ll be able to concentrate with myself. Nourish and heal my self. Thank you and I hope you continue to share your knowledge and hearts to people like me. Take care.

    #43321
    Alexey Sunly
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    Our pleasure, Kaypee 😀

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