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  • October 26, 2018 at 6:03 am #233455
    Anonymous
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    Dear Riris:

    Welcome back!

    If you are currently not involved with another man, and because he refuses to stroke your hair and back or hold your hand, hug you and such, then I suggest you ask your husband if it is okay with him that you will get involved with another man for the purpose of a man stroking your hair and back and such.

    What do you think about asking him that?

    anita

     

    October 26, 2018 at 6:29 am #233463
    riris
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    Dear anita

    Thanks!

    No, I’m not involved with another man. Well, he’s quite conservative, but I’ll ask him. But I don’t know if that can be a solution. I just want to be him to stroke my hair and touch me. Actually, it’s about touching each other in an affectionate way.

    I can leave him and be heartbroken because I love him and my baby, or I have to suck it up (excuse my language) and deal with it. But I did that so many years and I feel frustrated.

    October 26, 2018 at 6:42 am #233467
    Anonymous
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    Dear Riris:

    You wrote that you “don’t know if that can be a solution”- I understand that you want him to be physically affectionate with you and that because he refused, you had an affair, or affairs. Are you closed now to that solution or are you still considering it?

    If you are still  considering it, then it will be fair for you to ask him, maybe he is okay with it, maybe he prefers that you have affairs than to touch you affectionately. If this is the case, you will learn more about him, wouldn’t that be an interesting piece of information, if indeed he prefers that you have affairs over touching you affectionately?

    anita

    October 26, 2018 at 8:43 am #233509
    Bell
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    Hi Riris and Anita,

    i couldn’t help much in this topic. But I just wanted to express that this is the problem of me with my boyfriend too! We never hold hands, he seldom kissed me, and he only did those during sex. And sometimes he makes me feel used, because it feels like sex and not love-Making. He also doesn’t really look me in the eyes and just generally very cold towards me. It wasn’t like that initially but gradually got worse. I also think I am still very in love with him but cheated because he is not giving me the affectionate I want from him.

    October 26, 2018 at 9:59 am #233527
    Anonymous
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    * Dear Bell: I will refer to this post in my reply to you next, on your own thread.

    anita

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