Hi Todzilla
I’ve also recently left a long-term (20 year) relationship due to codependency issues, and am trying to work things out after a break. The realisation that he wouldn’t – maybe even couldn’t – change, no matter how much I loved him or what I did, was a hard one and made me angry for a long time… at him, at myself and even human nature as a whole.
I’ll be reading along with interest 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing