Dear Laure:

I believe I understand your sadness. We humans are born with the need to connect. As hard and as long as you try to undo this natural, inherent need, you won’t succeed, if I may predict the future. Simply because it is impossible.

You can connect. You were born not only with the need to connect but with the ability to connect. That need was frustrated in childhood, for many years and you lost the how, but your ability is still there, I have no doubt. There is a way to heal from this loneliness. It is not a life sentence, not a fate, not a genetic abnormality.

You have it in you to connect, and not only online, as you have done here already.

anita