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  • April 19, 2014 at 9:02 pm #55024
    Luna
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    hey there.
    I thin you’re very heart broken right now because again, i keep seeing this in every person who is broken hearted and can’t get over it..
    is:
    1.you did not understand why and how she have become so cold, you guys were in love.
    2.You never have an explain from her
    3.No comfort from her, and you don’t understand how a person used to love you, going to be your fiancé can be so heartless.
    4. You live and do everything for her, study for her and invest your time on her and do whatever you can to make her fall in love with you again.. you did way too much.
    5. You have bee rejected by her many times so it makes you want to chase her more and more.
    Please read this, you may can get some motivation and can relate to this man.

    Im lost and completely hopeless after my brutal breakup.


    She might have lied to you about if she have moved on. But find out once you’re ready, i mean words will come around.. Don’t look for it now as you’re not ready but just believe that she is moving on anyways. But if you can’t do that, the best way is to know and find out and face your fear. Once you know there is nothing left, you won’t come back.. This is what i can offer you right now.
    I hope you’ll find your self in time.
    What i wrote to that man, is also my words to you too 🙂
    Please move on, you’re a good man and life have so much to offer and if you don’t let go of the old, the new beginning will never start.
    peace and love <3

    April 20, 2014 at 6:05 am #55032
    Ray
    Participant

    Dear luna, thanks so much for your comforting words.You’re so nice and helpful. Though I tried very hard, Every morning is still so painful for me. Different thoughts may comes up. Yesterday I made my decision to end everything. Today I am so eager to get her back again…I tried to find every possible reasons, perhaps she was just bluffing; perhaps she is in a rebound relationship and she will end it very soon; perhaps she’s also suffering from our apart.

    Then I began to remember all the scenes we dated before. So much good memories. I can’t stop myself thinking about what I could have done so that we wouldn’t breakup. I also tried to remember all the negative traits of her. She kept demanding me while she did nothing for me. Still I can forgive her and just hope everything can be rehashing again.

    How can I Persuade myself to give up? Or how can I get her back? I really want to write a long mail to move her, but I know my chances are slim and all that I receive will be reconfirmation that it’s over.

    April 20, 2014 at 10:26 pm #55074
    Jennie90
    Participant

    Hi dear,
    Well first of be enough strong and bold. I know its quite difficult to forget somebody you loved so deeply. But dude let me tell you one thing. No matter how far you were if she really loved you she would have stayed with you and support you. By now with her attitude you have been able to see her truth. Be grateful you have not yet been married. Just think for a while, what would have been your case after marriage? Just take care of yourself right now. Focus on yourself and who knows the right girl might be waiting for you somewhere. Open the doors of your heart and your mind. Do things that keep you happy. If you are happy, your surroundings would be filled with happiness. Happiness will follow your path. Please keep smiling! 🙂

    April 21, 2014 at 9:57 am #55112
    Ray
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    Dear Luna, after asking explanation from my ex, i feel much better to move on because I see a huge gap between us, which is not worthy my efforts. You were absolutely right that She rejected me more while I invested more, which makes a vicious cycle. In addition, I know she’s not lying. But it doesn’t matter to me now. It’s over. Her life is irrelevant to mine.

    April 21, 2014 at 10:01 am #55113
    Ray
    Participant

    Dear Sharvina,
    Thanks so much for your encouragement. I like your idea that no matter how far you were if she really loved you she would have stayed with you and support you. Now I’ve seen the truth. Your every word deserves my thinking. I think I will move on soon.

    April 21, 2014 at 10:36 am #55115
    Jennie90
    Participant

    Dear Lunarforest,

    Well carry on, with courage and support of your friends. We are here to advise you. here’s another girl Lucie , who needs our guide and help i think. Let’s find some way out dude.

    April 21, 2014 at 12:04 pm #55127
    Luna
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    hi there 🙂 its nice that your user name is also luna but with an ‘r’ at the end 😀 hahha
    Anyways, sorry for the late reply. I was thinking the same thing if i was to read your message earlier. If you was to send her email you should. If you were wanting to reach to her for an explanation, you should. Whatever you want or need to do, you should. And after whatever that you should do, you will feel better and whatever the result maybe, you now know the answer 🙂
    See, whatever you feel right.. follow it, follow your heart. it never lead you to the wrong place 🙂
    I wish you all the best, this will be a great journey ahead of you, from today new beginning <3

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