Ok, you both were in the process of ending your relationships. But where not completely finished? She walked in on you both and there was no argument?
Seems, this MR. Buddass. is a grand manipulator, player. etc..
You go on to mention that you’re over your head in passion. That is not a clear place of love, that is lust.
You also talk about his virtues as being a rich homeowner a passionate kisser and loves you. But does he love you when he says, “relax go with the flow, don’t think about it”
Well if that isn’t the definition of a player I don’t know what is.
Men have said this to me and what was my response. “Sorry, but thinking about my life, my future, my self worth and my direction, I never “Don’t think about it”
If you think good wine and sex set me up to sign on the dotted line of your harem, forget about it I will! I’ll go with the flow alright, as I flow out of the door and back into my life.”
Also you should write solid foundation characteristics you want in a man. Integrity, honesty, loyalty, etc.. get out a thesaurus if need be.
What would Buddha say “The traps you get caught in, often mean we have to leave a leg behind.
What leg do you want to loose because you don’t see the trap?
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