Hey everyone…
I’ve been in a relationship for about a year now. Prior to me and my bf dating he was using Tinder and went ona few dates with a girl and then didn’t go any fughter than that but they continue to hang out as friends. Now that we are dating he’s still gone to vist her out of town where she lives and she has come here to hang out with him too. I felt uncomfortable with her visiting and told him and at first he seemed reassuring and sorry. they’ve even talked about the idea of opening up a business together. She keeps coming up and he says they have texted daily – multiple times daily while he was working out of town and otherwise it’s every couple of days. I feel jealous and sad because it feels like he is emptionally investing a lot into their relationship and now when I bring it up with him he says that there isn’t anything romantic and that they’re just friends but he doesn’t want to ease back on their relationship and defends their friendship. I don’t like that they met on Tinder and that they still talk ands ee each other so much – it feels like they are waiting for the opportunity to date or she is some weird back up to him. Am I being irrational and jealous or would you feel uncomfortable with this? Thanks!!!!