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  • August 22, 2017 at 11:25 am #165168
    Anonymous
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    Dear Liv:

    I hope you proceed to have a heathy, mutually beneficial friendship with your friend, one where the two of you practice the EAR principle: Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect.

    Often enough we don’t like what other people choose to do. It is up to you to decide whether you can live comfortably with another person’s choices while being in a friendship with that person. If you feel too uncomfortable with another’s choices, it is best to end the relationship. On the other hand, no one will operate in a way that will always satisfy us, always make us comfortable.

    anita

    August 22, 2017 at 1:58 pm #165184
    Eliana
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    Hi Liv,

    You state you “judge her” can you provide some examples? If she has been a good friend to you, I would not judge her based on her troubles with other people. Sometimes we never know all the truth. If she has been honest and not betrayed you, and if she has been a good listener and buys you a birthday present, it shows she cares about you, maybe not necessarily meaning she is an “attention seeker”..

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