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  • February 2, 2016 at 8:09 am #94696
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    I see that you are really interested in this woman and very much hoping for a relationship with her. And it is tough for you to see that you are on the acquaintance zone, not the friend zone you were in before. This is discouraging when your hopes are to be in the special boyfriend zone.

    keep posting with updates and your feelings about the situation with her and otherwise.

    anita

    February 2, 2016 at 6:51 pm #94762
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Thank you, Anita. I haven’t heard from her for a couple days. I guess time will tell. Thank you for your support and advice.

    February 3, 2016 at 9:44 am #94813
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    You are welcome and till your next update and post, take care!

    anita

    February 7, 2016 at 12:14 pm #95211
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Hello,

    So the last time I talked to her was a week ago. On Friday I sent a text just saying that I’m thinking of you and I hope you’re alright. She did respond today, and we texted back and forth briefly, just talking about general subjects. I’m so confused with everything, but I think I may be overthinking everything. She needs time to get her head right. I just wish she could see herself through my eyes, because she’s amazing. I’m just worried that she won’t see me the same way.

    February 7, 2016 at 6:44 pm #95228
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    You have a lot of patience and hope. And self discipline to wait a week until she responded and keeping those texts short.

    I think it is a beautiful statement, that you wish she could see herself through your eyes! That is beautiful!

    anita

    February 7, 2016 at 7:17 pm #95230
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Thank you, Anita. People like her don’t come along too often. Once in a lifetime. She’s pretty special.

    February 7, 2016 at 7:19 pm #95231
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    I wish she knew and understood how special it is to be valued like you value her! I wish she understood that…

    anita

    February 7, 2016 at 7:47 pm #95232
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    I wish she knew too 🙂

    February 7, 2016 at 7:54 pm #95233
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    You are a loving man, this is obvious to me!

    Please do post again. I would like to read further updates!
    anita

    February 9, 2016 at 5:10 pm #95614
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Well, she sent me a text today while I was at work asking how my day was going so I replied on my lunch. She asked if she could call and we talked for about an hour. Just about general topics but it was so good to hear her voice 🙂

    February 9, 2016 at 6:34 pm #95620
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    Sounds good to me, she reaching out to talk to you and you answering her during your lunch (not desperate to answer immediately!) Then she asked if she can call you, so she is not taking you for granted. Then talking for an hour is long enough, meaning there was interest on both side to carry the conversation for a whole hour. I see your smiley face and know it means you felt good when you posted the above.

    Till your next update, take good care of yourself!

    anita

    February 13, 2016 at 6:20 pm #95993
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Well, throughout the week we texted here and there. Usually I didn’t text her unless she texted me first. Well yesterday I texted her and got a two word response. I haven’t heard anything from her today. I guess I have to be prepared that this could be a pretty long process and may not end in my favor, but i have to believe that it will. I have to believe in fate. I have to believe in something. Thank you Anita for your insight. You’ve really helped a lot. Thank you.

    February 13, 2016 at 7:08 pm #95996
    Anonymous
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    Dear Serendipityj:

    You wrote that you have to believe in something. You mean, you have to believe that you will have love in your life, a loving relationship with a woman? If so, I do hope so as well. I would love to read an update from you one day, that you are involved in a loving relationship with a woman!

    I wonder how your life is otherwise… You are welcome, Serendipityj. If it is love that you meant, that you have to believe in it… I wonder if there is more you can do to increase your chances to be in such a relationship…

    anita

    February 17, 2016 at 6:53 pm #96367
    Serendipityj
    Participant

    Well, I sent her a card. It was just a light hearted card that made me laugh. I thought I would send it to her so she could smile too. I wrote a little message, very light hearted ending with I hope she’s doing well. I just want her to know that I genuinely care without being pushy. I truly do want what’s best for her. And, I want her to know I’m still here.

    February 17, 2016 at 7:13 pm #96371
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Serendipityj:

    You are a genuinely loving person: gentle, not pushy, wanting what is best for her, wanting her to smile and the thought that she may smile, made you smile. I like your gesture of love! I really do.

    anita

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